Sunday, May 25, 2008

Giving Back a Success

Today was, by anyones standard of measure, a signature success in the life of ParkwayHills Church.  Today, by doing it, we got it - and it was good.  

As I drove about from one group to another, I was thrilled each time I came upon you.  Seeing those blue T-Shirts, gloved hands, and Spirit-filled smiles reminded me of the genius of God in first sending His Son, and then, second, sending His church.  
At one site I happened to be alone for a moment picking up trash, when a young couple rode up on bicycles hot and exhausted from their ride. They paused by me collecting their selves together, and I offered them some of our cold water from a nearby cooler.  They thanked me, then continued by asking what group we were with and why we there.  I told them who we were and that our purpose for this day was to make the point that we were sent into the community to be a part of it, not just a user of it, and to make a difference.  The young man then asked me what I did.  I told him I was the pastor.  "Do you attend church?" I asked.  "No,"  he said. "Only a few times as a boy, and not at all since becoming an adult."  Then, he added this, "I may try your church, though, because - if I did go I'd want to attend one like yours."  I smiled and told him I'd love to see him, "anytime."

Oh, and as he rode off he added one thing more - "what you are doing is very responsible,"  he called.  To which I said, "thank you" then asked, "and what do you do?"  "I'm an environmental ecologist."   "Really?"  I returned, thinking he might be just pulling my leg.  "Yes, really!"  He said.  

Hmm!  God is in charge, indeed!

Pastor Sam 



Monday, May 19, 2008

ParkwayHills Gives Back

I am proud of ParkwayHills, though I realize that most are not aware of the hundreds who grace our halls - not on Sunday - but Monday through Friday.  

Yet, this year, as we entered our 19th year of ministry, being proud of our 'weekday record' wasn't enough.  Somehow, I thought, we should translate what is true of our buildings and a few, into a reality that is true of all.  From this, "ParkwayHills Gives Back" was born.   

On Sunday, May 25, we will end our services and campus activities early.  Then, after a light lunch, prayer, and brief instruction - we will leave our campus behind and take the 'spirit' of ParkwayHills outside these walls and into the streets in order to give back to the community we are called to serve.  

I can't tell you how excited I am about this.   Why?  Because this action will provide a living metaphor for the teaching/preaching point so often made,  that we 'go.'  In short... we are! 

Now some may argue against this; saying, this effort will not produce any 'converts.'  Yet, I would return with this - "I think it's worth volumes."  For it will practically demonstrate that going is the first step to sharing; and that, until we are willing to step outside our comfort zones, literally step outside our own walls, we might just as well be a 'clanging gong' or 'tinkling cymbal' to a world caring less and less.  

So come join us on this Sunday before Memorial Day.  Make a church memory - for yourself and your family.  A memory you'll not soon forget as you allow this Sunday to be the day that you got up, got out of your seats, and really did what the pastor said.    


Let's give back.  


Pastor Sam  

Friday, May 9, 2008

Mother's Day and preaching

In pulpit ministry there are those Sunday's that if you don't get right, well... you might just as well hang it up.  One of those, of course, is Mother's Day.  A day when hearts are warmmoist, and, some... are aching from hurt.

Now I didn't always know this.  Oblivious to the tradition, I insisted on following my own agenda determined not to give in to 'sentimentality'.  Mother's beware! (thought I)  this pastor has something to say!  Even if it has nothing - whatsoever - to do with you!  Aaarrgghh!!! 

Now, 19 years and 20 Mother's Days later, I have reformed from the error of my ways.  It's Mother's Day for crying out loud!   And, well,  we all have a Mother - and can use a word concerning how to be one, how to love one, how to learn from one, and, how to hope and help all the one's yet to come.  Too, I can think of no better time than our "hip and happening" 21st century to hear a word from God's pulpit on Christian Motherhood.  

So, if you're near Plano and/or the North Dallas Tollway this weekend, step in to ParkwayHills.  There you'll hear a word on Mother's Day concerning Mother's.   Whether broken, blessed, or somewhere in between - this is one preacher who will not miss the opportunity this wonderful day brings. 

Happy Mother's Day, indeed  


Pastor Sam 
  

Thursday, May 1, 2008

A 'New York' minute and tip

My bride and I just returned late Wednesday from two and a half days in Manhattan.  We went there to celebrate 25 years of marriage by spending time together.  It was fantastic. How could it not be?  But... it was fast.  

Of course, in New York everything is fast, even a minute!   Have you never heard the term, "A New York Minute"?  Wikipedia says the term originates from an understanding that New Yorkers are 'hurried and impatient."  And, that fast little encyclopedia should know!

While there we went to a show at the Gershwin, ate, shopped, ate, went sight-seeing, ate, and.., walked around Central Park - topped off by one last time to... eat.  Alka Seltzer anyone?   I  marveled at how much I love my wife.  How good God is to have seen fit to allow us a partnership in this life of love, raising children, and ministry. " B" really is my partner  - and I am blessed.  

But one other thing I always experience when in new York, beyond a "hurried" minute and "lot's" of food, are the New York Cabbie's.  These are generally men who have moved here from somewhere else - often the Middle East, and don't I have some fun in those cabs?   

In a New York Cab I've been in 3 wrecks, a few more fender benders,  witnessed a myriad of hand gestures, endured lots of honking, and never experienced a decent A/C.   Yet, being a Texan, a preacher, and your pastor Sam, I always mange to strike up a conversation (maybe that's why we're having all the wrecks) and pass along a witness for Christ.  Which, by the way, also prompts me to be a good tipper.  Stinginess does not follow well the message of grace.

After all, how can I share Jesus and be jerk at the same time?  I can't!   And that's the whole of this story.  

Blessings - 

Pastor Sam 

   


Thursday, April 24, 2008

A New Day and Time

It has been said that there is 'nothing new under the sun' but I say to you that, today, there is. Why?  Because today  I see an attitude and practice exciting a new generation of Christians now taking their turn at Kingdom advancement by serving in ways that work.   By folks taking seriously the life and teachings of Christ, and placing such at the core of individual and corporate church expressions, the church is beginning to respond to challenges that directly effect our world - opening up new opportunities to share the gospel.   And that is exciting.  Always!

I've sensed the need for this new day for a long time.  When I first began Parkwayhills Church - even though we had no physical building to call our own - in every way I knew this was a beginning in the church, to the church, and for the church.  Now that's not what I said, that's just what was.  What I said was - 'we need to be a church for those on the outside'- and, try as I might, I spent all the energy and resources I could muster to convince 'us' this was true.  Had I been pressed, though, I would've had to admit that the 'world' - well... really could care less.  So that my true and best hope was that we might simply 'catch' or 'attract' a few of those on the 'outside' who were on their way to the 'inside' anyway.   In my heart I ached for a church that was more.  I longed for a church triumphant, marching on to Zion while making a difference as tasty salt and loving light in the lives of all people - so that people, whether inside or out, might look up and say, WOW, that was something!  

So, getting back to the new, what I see today is something I really like.  I see a deacon ministry that is connecting with our members and not just coming to meetings.  I see small groups, whether meeting on Sundays or other days of the week at church or in the home, creating structures of true Christian koinonia where people connect in ways beyond 'consumer' and are engaged in faith that changes lives.      

On Sunday, April 27,  I will begin a preaching series titled, "In this City."  By teaching about Christ's life from the gospels I will attempt to engage our congregation to not "do' church but "be" the church instead. Christ made a difference - a difference that centers absolutely on the cross.   And, though we know it is not our job to re-do what Christ has done (as only His work there is sufficient) but to tell others about it, the truth is we earn the right to do so, or not, in the way we live.  Do we doubt that Jesus piqued the interest of others in who He was with a winsome life?  Dare we do less?  

Yes... this is a new day and time and I, for one, am glad for it!  The world we live in is not impressed with rhetoric.   It is time for us (the church) to change - in ways that have, for too long, only failed - with lives that can!  

I thank God for a new day and time.  Don't you? 


Pastor Sam   




Friday, April 18, 2008

A High School Climb; circa, 1968

When I was a young man nearing graduation from High School, there was one thing left yet for me to do before exiting my alma mater – Wichita High School North.  The school had been built on the banks of the Little Arkansas River in 1929, and - as that was another time and place in the American psyche - inscribed in stone upon her grand tower were the words from the Bible passage, Proverbs 3:13-18. 

Now tradition held that Seniors, on the last week before they graduated, could climb the tower steps to its top and look out across the river, north upon what once was the Kansas prairie, and south to the city streets of Wichita.  And though the consummate prankster and malefactor of mischief, prone to frequent all nooks and crannies of this great old school at will, I had failed in all previous attempts to break tradition and code by climbing those tower steps.   

As I faced opportunity for my 'official climb',  there lacked  but one requirement  - recitation of the tower's Proverb, word for word, and by memory.   Of course, not knowing the proverb, dear to some but merely 'permission' to me, I took the morning of my appointed day to learn it - then stood before a volunteer, recited it in full, and  was passed to the heights above.   Up step after step and ladder after ladder, I climbed to the tower’s top, anticipating what I would see with naught but the proverb in my memory.  

Perhaps I was naive.  I don't know.  But, once there I was shocked to find only this... names!  More names in 'legalized graffiti' than ever I'd seen.  Names of rich, of poor,  of recent and long ago.  Some recognizable, but most not.  So that as I stood on this grand perch gazing at the names of her walls, they began speaking to me of  their days and times.  There were names of those who had crossed seas for war, and names who had not come back.  There were names recognizable, of distinction and notoriety; and many more – the greater sea of which were just like mine - of no recognition at all.   These were names of countless young, who had climbed to the tower’s top on a proverb, who had looked out to see what they might see, and who, like me, had yet to fully realize that it was the words that had brought them there and could - if they'd listen - bring them back again.

This May marks my 40th year since scaling that old tower, and I am still amazed over it all.   Not at the climb. But at those words 'hurriedly' learned.  They are now a precious memory to me, and true!   Because I have come to know the Saviour, the very Son of God, from whose heart these words are born.   

Do you know the words?  Do you know the Saviour?  Words of wisdom written long ago - that have become a part of the landscape of my life - from a "High School Climb" to now.  

Here they are!

Happy is the man that findeth wisdom, and the man that getteth understanding. For the merchandise of it is better than the merchandise of silver, and the gain thereof than fine gold. She is more precious than rubies: and all the things thou canst desire are not to be compared unto her.

 Length of days is in her right hand; and in her left hand riches and honour. Her ways are ways of pleasantness, and all her paths are peace. She is a tree of life to them that lay hold upon her: and happy is every one that retaineth her.

 The LORD by wisdom hath founded the earth; by understanding hath he established the heavens. By his knowledge the depths are broken up, and the clouds drop down the dew.

 My son, let not them depart from thine eyes: keep sound wisdom and discretion: So shall they be life unto thy soul, and grace to thy neck. Then shalt thou walk in thy way safely, and thy foot shall not stumble.

 When thou liest down, thou shalt not be afraid: yea, thou shalt lie down, and thy sleep shall be sweet. Proverbs 3: 13-24, KJV

Wednesday, April 9, 2008

2008.04.08 - Maneuvering the Turns

I traveled to Dallas this morning to visit a family whose loved one has survived a very serious motorcycle accident from this past Sunday. Their 'watch' is being held at Methodist Hospital of Oak Cliff where they are surrounded by friends, church members and loved ones. And though "Scott" will be OK, the family now faces surgeries to repair broken bones, months of rehab and recovery, and certain - even if only temporary, 'life-change' along with it.

Now the longer I live and serve as a pastor, the more I have come to expect that things are NEVER as tranquil as they appear. I can be marrying one couple today, with yet another talking of divorce. At the hospital rejoicing over a new birth, and turning to my phone to hear another has just died. Life takes quick turns - not just as a metaphoric comparison of people - but sometimes with the self-same one. Scott was enjoying a peaceful Sunday ride down a farm to market road outside of Aubry Texas when his 'turn' came. The next thing he knew was that he was being careflight-ed to Dallas. In an 'instant' his reality was changed and this one turn turned his life upside down.

Maneuvering our turns, then, is the operative - not avoiding them. And all the 'platitudes' in the world, however well meaning, are just not enough. In short, there's not enough 'real' comfort or confidence gained in the words - "He's in Control" - though He is. Because there has to be more than surface understanding of this truth, God is in control, we need Scripture to help us.

God helps us maneuver our turns as we realize...

1. He loves us - Romans 8:38-39

2. He cares for us - 1 Peter 5:7

3. He has a plan for our life - Jeremiah 29:11

4. He will never forsake us - Matthew 28:20b

These truths may not take the turns away from life, but they will help us maneuver them.

Till Sunday, then -

Pastor Sam